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WE ARE NOT IN THE SAME BOAT...

Updated: Apr 29

“I heard it said that we are all in the same boat, but it's not like that. We are in the same storm, but not in the same boat. Your ship could be shipwrecked and mine might not be. Or vice versa.


For some, quarantine is optimal: a moment of reflection, of re-connection, easy in flip flops, with a cocktail or coffee. For others, this is a desperate financial & family crisis.


In some homes a sole occupant faces endless loneliness. In others, family members are getting peace, rest, and time with each other — while in still others, quarantine means an increased danger due to domestic violence.


With the $600 weekly increase in unemployment some are bringing in more money to their households than they were working. Others are working more hours for less money due to pay cuts or loss in sales.


Some families of 4 just received $3400 from the stimulus while other families of 4 saw $0.


Some were concerned about getting a certain candy for Easter while others were concerned if there would be enough bread, milk and eggs for the weekend.


Some want to go back to work because they don't qualify for unemployment and are running out of money. Others want to kill those who break the quarantine.


Some are home spending 2-3 hours/day helping their child with online schooling while others are spending 2-3 hours/day to educate their children on top of a 10-12 hour workday.


Some have experienced the near death of the virus, some have already lost someone from it and some are not sure if their loved ones are going to make it. Others don't believe this is a big deal.


Some have faith in God and expect miracles during this 2020. Others say the worst is yet to come.


So, friends, we are not in the same boat. We are going through a time when our perceptions and needs are completely different.


Each of us will emerge, in our own way, from this storm. It is very important to see beyond what is seen at first glance. Not just looking, actually seeing.


We are all on different ships during this storm experiencing a very different journey.”


- Unknown author


We are living through an unprecedented time in history. It‘s an uncertain time. This is a time that can cause anxiety, depression and feelings of hopelessness. We may judge others for taking their child to the grocery store, unaware that the single parent had no other option. We may Find this time has given us an increase in empathy and drive to help others. Whatever your situation or reaction, be gentle with yourself and others. This is hard. But we will get through this.

If you are struggling, reach out, find support. You don’t have to be alone.

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